Not long ago, I got an ask inquiring about my wishlist. I replied that I don’t have one and thought no more of it, until the same person asked why not. Though I didn’t explain, the question has stayed on my mind, I think because it reminds me of the unsolicited offers to buy things that I often get when seeking a playmate for me and mine.
While I feel a way about money and things being the opening salvo from (primarily men) subs trying to win my interest, the main reason I dislike the offers is because they always want to buy me things that boost their perception of femdoms, not things I actually want. Those subs are not saying they’re generous with gifts or even that they like me enough to be generous. Instead, they’re offering to buy items fit for the image of a woman they desire me to be.